Article by Jon Sinn
When it comes to how to attract women, your lifestyle is more important than most guys realize. Your lifestyle has to be suitable for picking up women. It also is important because it determines what type of girls you’re going to get. Your skills and inner psychology are going to do the actually attraction, but your lifestyle needs to be in place.
One of the biggest mistakes lots of guys make with lifestyle is that they don’t look realistically at their life. For example, some guy who works a 60-hour week, never goes out and has no group of friends really is going to have trouble. This lifestyle doesn’t mix with going out and picking up girls.
You can suddenly quit your job and start becoming a social animal, but most people have the lifestyles they do because they like them. What you might need is just a small change to get you out more. The whole point is to have a plan and to make these changes with the end in mind.
So, being realistic means knowing what you can or can’t do with your lifestyle. If you work 60 hours a week and want to adjust your lifestyle so that you get 2 same-night lays a month, it’s totally possible. But if you have this lifestyle and you want to be getting 4 a month and you want them to be strippers or something like that, this isn’t going to be compatible with your lifestyle.
Guys also have trouble because they get hung up on one particular way to get girls, or they don’t want to use shortcuts. They think there there’s a code of hone to picking up girls, which means that you have to meet them on the street or at some other venue. These guys are likely to think they don’t need to work on their game any more than they do now.
The whole idea behind lifestyle is that if you’ve got a good one going, one that’s compatible with meeting girls, everything else will be much easier. Your skills will work for you better and your inner game will not be a problem. That’s all you really need – a lifestyle that’s compatible. You’ve got to have some room there for picking up women.
How to attract women is about skills and inner game, but lifestyle has a huge influence. Lots of guys neglect this and it’s essential for getting what you want out of your seduction strategies.
CAKE video from the “Motorcade of Generosity” album.
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@Porojukaha Lady Gaga is just a female version of David Bowie, 20 years? late. Bowie did it first, and better.
@Porojukaha Such truth in your words. But I’m pretty sure gaga knows, at a video I can’t remember because I have this video’s song blaring in my heads and it keeps me from thinking of other music…. I think? it was weird a’ls perform this way but I’m not 100%, at one point “being unique” is mentioned, at which that immediate moment who does appear but Madonna saying “express yourself”. The irony is palpable, ant beautiful.
Cake just fucking linked to this video from their facebook page! LIKE HOLY? SHITE MAN!
@TheRogueNamedSam I gotta 18 barrel revolving Gattling shotgun.? WHAT NOW????? Not really. It’d be damn awesome though.
Music and rock n roll, its not about how many? records you have or how many concerts have you been to, not either about how you look or what you dress, its about sharing feelings, its about transmmitting a damn message, its about expresion and passion, its about enjoying what you do, its about shooting out to the world saying hey guys!!!!! ive got something to say damm hipsters!!!
Almost 20 years later? and I still love it.
@Porojukaha beautiful? comment, at least not everyone is brainwashed…
John McCrea isn’t bald! I knew? it!
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This is my favorite song. Still. In 2011.?
im really starting to like cake can anyone else recommend me? some of there good songs!
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